Anal Sex - What you need to know.

Not all ladies allow anal, and all guys are curious what it feels like going into something that tight. Always ask the lady or the guy first. No means no.

There is a reson. Few guys know the sensation and how to do it right. They always forget that the lube is not only needed on the rectum, but the whole shaft. If someone screams "stop", it is because not enough lube has been used to cover the entire colon.

For more information, see - http://www.sexuality.org/authors/morin/analrule.html

If someone is on their knees muff diving and a tight (male) ass is in the air, with writing on the buns saying "insert here when hard", just grab plenty of lube and a condom. Practice makes perfect. There is a reason ladies love it. There is a reason guys love it. Male or female, the ass is tight and a new experience worth a try.

These parties are about exploring, and an ass is an amazingly tight fuck. Not all ladies allow it, as guys never use enough lube inside.

Do I need condoms and lube?

Obviously condoms are a must. Lube is must. Without it, condoms can break and their is also pain. We have plenty of lube, but ALSO use the anal lube as it is also a desensitizing cream. There are some new silicone based products I am hoping to order in.

You slowly work the fingers in, one at a time, until there are three inside. Be gentle, take your time. You are not just sretching, you are working the lub in. Plenty of lube is needed for the inside cavity, not just the rim on the way in!!! Be gentle.

The desensitizing cream is for the rectum. Aloows one to relax the muscles.

Make sure the whole shaft of the condom is kept lubed. After you are in to the hilt, pull out and re-apply. Repeat.

Once you are inside and the male/female is comfortable, pound away in something really tight. Depending on your size, be prepared to stop at any time. Stop means stop - more lube. Oh Yes !!!! means pound. There is no feeling like it.

There are others who want to experience it, so just have someone write "insert when hard" and play it by ear.

Always wash your hands afterwards when you remove your condom. There is bacteria there.

Rimming

Unlike watersports, rimming is a much higher risk of bacteria. While the sensation is awesome, and fantastic sex, it is very personal.

Someone has to be very clean. You have to understand that if they have food poisoning it will be directly trasnmitted. It is a personal choice.

If someone is very clean, it can lead to orgasms on its own. Feels amazing to explore with your tongue too. You just keep circling and when ready, fuck it with your tongue as deep as you can.

It is great sex, but not the safest. A very personal choice. Always rinse afterward.

The main function of the rectum is to act as a passageway for feces. But feces are not normally stored in the rectum except just prior to a bowel movement. Yet small amounts may remain in the rectum, expecially if the feces are not well formed. Anal douching before lovemaking will help some people especailly concerned with cleanliness to relax. For others the idea of dirtiness heightens the joy of the forbidden; for them, douching is anti-erotic.
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