Thank you all for last night's Bi-Swinger party. From what I saw, all of you were having fun.

I think we all had a great evening and hope that the newbees can now be considered regulars. I get asked why I insist on recording ID. As of next party, NOBODY will be getting a name tag unless their full contact information is complete and legible.

Unfortunately, there were some guests who did not play safe and put us all at risk of STD's. That is completely unacceptable at Swinger parties.

One male refused to use a condom. His reason? His tubes were tied. High risk.



He was asked to get dressed and leave. His attitude means he DOES NOT practice safe sex. He, yet again to refused to provide address or e-mail, means he wants to make sure knowbody can track him down if he has an STD or aids. johnm has been blacklisted for unsafe sex.

Another male, I could not see his name, tried penetration without a condom. I had to cover a pussy with my hand as I saw what he was planning. He was reminded when he attempted and put on his condom. As host, I cannot be in all places at once. The next guest who attempts this will be banned.

One of the ladies started her period, exposing guests to direct blood contact. She continued sex and the guys continued sex without considering that there was now blood on their fingers, mouth, base of their penis. Don't feel shocked, she put herself at extreme risk too and I am asking her to go for an AIDS test after waiting for a couple of weeks.

Oral sex is safe as the stomach acids kill the AIDS virus and the the PH of the mouth does too. Unless there is blood contact, the mouth is safe.

Please play safe. I may suggest that guests consider visiting the Options Clinic , Dundas/Adelaide, for a free 60 second HIV blood test. Please play safe. Three guests attempted or did attempt high risk sex. That means they think nothing about high risk sex acts. That is completely unacceptable for Swinger parties.

It is unfortunate that there are still un-educated people. These parties are all about education. Swingers have statistically the lowest STD's rates of any category as they play safe. It is unfortunate that two guests put all 22 of us potentially at risk.

As of next party, NOBODY will be getting a name tag unless their ful; contact information is complete and legible. Those who refuse are the most likely for back-lane sex & unsafe sex practices and will be banned. Those guests put us all at risk.

Sorry to be a bummer. I cannot be in all places at tthe same time. MY responsibility as host is to inform you all that bad judegement by a few guests put all of us in potential risk.

p.s. Even though I only had oral and finger sex, I will be visiting the Options Clinic , Dundas/Adelaide in two weeks. I'm not happy about it, but because of a couple of guests it is the safe thing to do.

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