...(they)... did not have any intercourse at all but i do think ... was expecting some and it didn't happen. Oh well that's how it goes sometimes. Thank you. Nice to know the "other side". As host I am always running around and do not have time to sit and chat until the party is over. As for sex, well it is hard on the first time to just jump in and say I'm next. Some of the guys had the same experience. They were wandering like lost sheep, not knowing what to do. There was MUCH LESS sex at this last party then the previous party. Previously, I had to close the windows as the ladies were all screamers and echoing around the neighbourhood. The ratio was also down... only two guys per lady instead of the usual six. Part of that was due to more ladies, and part was because some of the guys were newbies & lost. Please, make sure ... knows there is no pressure and ... is welcome back. Let ... know the first time is always "unexpected" and "awkward". This is why I use the term "couch potatoes". I had a couple of much earlier parties where even I walked out in disgust !!!! The guys were just sitting & waiting. Then they wined about not enough sex !!! Many of the guests were just not sure this time. I think they were expecting one-on-one and not sharing. Sharing is a new experience for the guests. Let's hope they try and enjoy. Mark

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