Thank you to all the guests

I understand that personal plans always change and so thank you to the others who are hoping to make it next month instead.
 
For those who drove in from out-of-town, I can appreciate your time as these parties take me a lot of time too.

I spent an hour updating my records from the weekend so we can ensure safer sex.  One guy was turfed as he refused to provide contact information as his wife might divorce him she knew he was screwing around behind her back. Those people are not safe when it comes to sex.
 
Thank you for the guests who brought new lube to try and condoms to replenish my supplies, and beer.  When it comes to group sex, flavoured water-based lube is really important.  The oil based lube stains the mattresses and tastes really bad. Thanks as well to those who brought cans instead of glass.
 
I wish to thank the guests who washed before or during the party.  Don't expect to get a blowjob if you have never showered in the past week.  Same thank you for the guests who this time did not toss their cigarette butts all over my backyard.
 
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The party was a lot of fun, great sex, and a great social setting.
 
We had 32 guests, many new couples and many from out-of-town.  All of us shared stories about the lifestyle and their experiences.  To put it blunt, it was cool. We had some great couples that are very active in the swinger lifestyle and they shared a lot of information.
 
This party, we tried a new concept of the "black room".  Nobody knows who is inside and nbody can find anyone except by touch.  Afterwards, nobody knows who was there or who did what.  By popular request, I will hold onto that concept for an hour each party.
 
Unfortunately, the mood was ruined by a guest wanting to leave early and could not wait until the hour was over.  Oh well.  The concept worked though.
 
I did have to insist that lights be left on in the other rooms though at all times.  Important to check on condoms and these parties are not about one-on-one sex.  They lost out on a lot of sex as nobody could see what was going on.  These are very much group parties.

There was an issue about security for the clothing [one set of pants got lube spilled on them], and I am not sure how I am going to address the issue yet.
 
As usual, the couch potatoes were in abundance.  They spent most of the party in the living room talking.  Not really socializing, just killing time. They missed some fantastic sex upstairs.  Their loss.
 
Cheers, Mark
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