April 4th, 2009, party plans

This looks like another full house for our April 4th party and I have set a limit of 40 guests. That way we are cozy for lots of group play, but still have space to get some fresh air and catch our breath.

Please do not arrive fashionable late. I open the doors at 9pm and they remain locked after 9pm. If you travel from out of town or have to work late, please make plans with me in advance. It interrupts the social flow if first-time guests decide to show up "fashionably late" and do not yet know anyone. This is why we have the one hour social.

Our format it tried, proven and stands the test of time. All clothes are left at the door. Without clothes ae are all equal. For the ladies, if it is suddenly the wrong time of the month for you, a wrap is a subtle way of keeping parts off limits to the guests.

There are some some cross dressers hoping to show up and that is always a tough call. We are all in our birthday suites. Nobody is there to strut their stuff and show off. Sex is awkward when fully dressed, so why waste the time? I suggest crotchless stockings only.

I have been getting some great comments from couples about the "dark room". It is a cool concept. Especially for those who are bi-curious. All the guests sign in, so we know who we are having sex with, but not within a dark room without any lights. Everything is done by feel. After, there is no guilt and nobody knows who they just explored.

The idea came from one of our couples at our last party and is great. For the straight guys, there will be a lot of groping until the wives are located, so you might want to wait this one out.

For the newbies, these parties are not about one-on-one sex or getting a date. If you are a couch potatoe, you will miss out. Grab a toe & start sucking. Or a nipple. Or a finger. Please remember to share with others.

If a tree falls in the woods and nobody is there, does it make a noise? If a party happens and nobody takes pics, did it happen? All faces are edited for party promo pics. Please remember to get pics of the host as well. He is not shy.

Look forward to seeing the regulars and the new faces driving in from out of town.

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