April 4th, 2009, bi-swinger party

Everything is sounding exciting for next weekend's bi-swinger party in April. What a great way to get ready for Easter and the great Easter Egg Hunt !!!!

I try not to send out too many e-mails as we all get enough to plow thru. I try to keep them to once after the party and once a week before the next one.

I've had a lot of great ideas and some not so great ideas from the regulars. As host, I am always open to suggestions. Some are great and some go against the founding concepts of my party. Equality. None of us are Ken and Barbie types.



Dark Room - sort of like a glory hole, only safer sex.

The idea of a "dark room" for an hour is really erotic and popular. This way it will be kept completely black, with a glow light to show the exit. Guests will end up having sex strictly thru touch and not by looks or attraction. The ideal equalizer. This is only for a half hour and only for those who know what to expect.

Selfish sex - why not share?

I've also been asked to leave the lights off in the other rooms all night and nixed the idea. No means no, and without lights it is awkward to walk into a common area. This is why I bought light dimmers for all the rooms. We want to be able to feel comfortable. Leaving the lights out all evening implies an "ellite club" only is allowed. Completely against the concept of my parties.

Another idea was more one-on-one sex. I nixed that idea too. I'm not running a dating club. Guests are happy with their status, single or married. It is a waste of resources to have a single room tied up with two people making out while the others have to go elsewhere. These parties are about sharing.

I nixed the idea of a glory hole, party games, the idea of strip teases, and cross-dressing. We all know why we are at the parties - to socialize and have fun. Why waste an hour or so? This is why we all start off naked. Otherwise the sex will not start until 2am and the party is over at 2am. Complete waste of time.

If you are giving someone a blowjob, rember this is a bi crowd. Feel free to grab a guy and share. The wives do not have to do all the work. Neither do you have to give anything more then a teaser blowjob. Walking around with a hard on is ok at these parties.



For the newcomers - No need to be a couch potatoe

For the newcomers, feel free to just watch and get comfortable. No always means no. Once you are comfortable, feel free to join in. Always wear a condom. There is no reason for anyone to be a couch potatoe once comfortable.

These are casual parties though. No pressure on anyone. The lights are on in all the play rooms, so feel free to mingle and socialize. Or just watch. We have a furnished playroom upstairs, a group room next to it and a playroom downstairs. Don't forget to have sex on the kitchen counters or in the living room !!!!

Smoking is outside in the backyard. Please do not though your butts on the ground though. The parties are BYOB and please use cans instead of bottles. Broken glass is never fun.



Masterbation

If you are going to cum over someone ALWAYS ask permission. Make sure NOTHING goes near the vagina, cock nor asshole. That is unsafe sex !!! Facials and oral are safer.

Should you decide to masterbate instead, just holler out "I'm cumming" and I am sure someone will take the load from you. Always ask and always share.

8-9pm social - Clothes are left at the door

Just a reminder to show up promptly at 8pm to socialize. You cannot expect to show up late for your first time and feel comfortable. I lock the doors at 9pm for this reason. If you wish to show up at midnight for a quickie, it is not going to happen.

For those from out of town, or those working late, make arrangements with me and you will know how to get in. Otherwise the social is between 8-9pm.

All clothes are left at the door, and all guests must sign in for safer sex. It is BYOB so Id is required and recorded for safer sex as well.


Pictures of the host

We all do it. We all take pics. Cameras are welcome, but nothing leaves the house. You must bring a USB cable and the format the disk after downloading, so make sure it starts off blank. All pics are edited to remove faces and taottoos. They are for party promo to get new guests.

The only exception to the face rule is the Shemale Porn Star Traci and the host. They have both signed full releases for party promo showing their face. The host is not shy, so feel free to get plenty of interesting pics of him. He is always featured in the promo as that respects the privacy of the others. We can use pics of him instead.



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