Each Party is different



What every person wants on every given night can be different. Generally, women expect some conversation first. The same goes for the men. Remember that each guest may say "no" and you have to respect that, so ask nicely.

Turn Offs for women & couples

  1. Always wash your cock when you arrive if you want a blowjob.
  2. Being used just as a conquest and just to fuck. Respecting that some women are not there to fuck.
  3. The wham-bam-thank-you-mam approach to sex
  4. Drunks
  5. Drunks !!
  6. Drunks !!!!
  7. Getting stoned
  8. Expectation that they have paid their money and the women or guys owe them something
  9. Not respecting the word NO
  10. Not washing hands between partners
  11. Cumming over them any where near their muff. Safe sex is important.
  12. Not using lube when fingering
  13. Leaving used condoms on the floor
  14. Ignoring their clit and the g-spot. Even men have a g-spotto explore
Recomendations



The men should use a RED name tag to indicate what they are interested in, so that there are no unwanted surprises and there is no confusion.

Always share, so please limit them to 30 seconds to build up the sexual tension and the orgasm.

With the RED tag you know you will not be rejected, but it is polite to ask.

Special requests?



Fetish is welcome. From watersports to the men who want to experience being a bottom or be paddled. Same same goes for the bi guys practicing giving blowjobs or those who want to get one. If you want to masturbate instead, let the ladies watch and let them know when you are ready to cum. At these parties, we know why we are there.

Never ask a lady to do anything you would not do yourself



At an earlier party, one of the wifes was blindfoled and giving all the guests as many blowjobs as possible.

This party a guest is willing to do the same thing she was willing to do. He wants to top her and his goal is 200 blowjobs during the evening. However, to make it interesting - only 30 seconds at a time - for all guys in the halls watching or on the kitchen or living room socailizing.

Never ask a wife to do something you are not willing to do.



One-on-one Sex? Always group sex

At these parties, everything is group sex. If you want private one on one sex, stay home. Or hire a Service Provider. This goes for the women as well - the lifestyle is about enjoying group sex. That is how you get multiple orgasms. This is not about falling in love or being attracted to someone.

These are very much group parties for multiple orgasms and socializing.

Markers can be fun to use. We party naked so why not use them?









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