What to expect at our bi swinger party? These bi-swinger parties are on-premise and held in a private home in London, Ontario, Canada. It is the only on-premise event that encourages singles in the area. All clothes are left at the door, as these are on-premise parties. Full ID is recorded for the safety of all guests. Cameras may be present for party promo (subject to limitations) Sex is allowed. Bi-sex too. Swinger laws in Canada. Our house parties are one of the very few events in Canada that welcome single bi-men or accepts bi-couples. It was founded in the year 2000, for those into the lifestyle. We do not discriminate. Singles are welcome. Turn Offs for women & couples Being used just as a conquest and just to fuck. Respecting that some women are not there to fuck. The wham-bam-thank-you-mam approach to sex Drunks Drunks !! Drunks !!!! Getting stoned Expectation that they have paid their money and the women or guys owe them something Not respecting the word NO A cock that has not been washed Not washing hands between partners Cumming over them any where near their muff. Safe sex is important. Not using lube when fingering Leaving used condoms on the floor Ignoring their clit and the g-spot. Even men have a g-spotto explore Don't ask how many Men/Ladies will be there! Numbers are always hard to predict. I am not a dating service. We are there for great sex and not dating. These are bi parties after all, so it does not matter what gender. Plenty of opportunity for great orgasms, unless you are a couch potatoe. Bi means the best of both worlds. Sex is sex. For space limitations and safety, I limit the number to a maximum of 40 guests. Reservations do help as there is a cut-off. Those possibly arriving late or delayed need to warn me. How do the parties start off? As you know all clothes are left at the door. So, please be patient when you ring the doorbell, as the host has to get something on in order to answer the door !!! Yes, there will be naked guests inside, but all windows are covered. The back yard is private. I'll be taking you through the living room and you can get changed, in private, in one of the empty guest rooms. Your valuables are probably safer locked in your car. I do have a lockup if needed and you are concerned. Do I have to sign in? These parties are all about safer sex. These days we have to play safe. In the days of Roman Orgies the only risk was getting pregnant. Backlane sex means you probably already have HIV and STD's. If you prefer to cheat on your spouse or lie about your name, then that is backlane sex. Those are the ones who turn their tails and run like hell... as they do not want anyone to know. Going thru my sign-in sheets, I have seen just how dishonest some people there are. I need full contact information recorded for all guests for the safety of their sexual partners. This is why condoms are required for all intercourse. Do I have to wear a name tag? Always know your partner. As part of the process each guest gets a name tag AFTER they have signed in. First name only. Being naked, the name tag is the only way to remember who is who while having sex. It also means that "no means no" and you can complain about someone. As your host, I consider it sexual assault if someone goes beyond your wishes and I will lay charges. The name tags are the standard "white board markers". They wash off soap and they disolve instantly. If you feel like doodling on guests, by all means... as they do wash off. These parties are about fun. What else can I add to my name tag? The "doodles" can also include sexual interests. Please use the backside only. Such as "insert when hard" on the buns for those willing to host anal, "keep me hard" for those looking for teaser blowjobs to get them hard for intercourse, "if bent over rim me" for those who don't mind being rimmed while muff diving, "Don't forget my toes", or "I had a pee, lick me" for those wanting to try watersports... Just some ideas. Sex is about fun and enjoying life. Every single one of us has a fetish they would love to try. What is the "social" hour? For the first hour we socialize as guests arrive. Without clothes and pockets for your hands, it is easy to get to know people. We ask people not to show up "fashionably late" and that is why the doors are locked at 9pm. Those from out-of-town or expect to arrive late should make plans in advance so we know you are expected. A few people start off awkward at being naked, as everything is exposed. Zits on down, as none of us are Ken and Barbie Doll types. The social is to get people comfortable and talking. This is where the name tags help as new guests arrive and sign in. These are BYOB parties. Smoking is only allowed outside as this is my home. In July, we started off in the backyard, other times it has been the playroom. Everything changes on the weather and heat. Either way, it gives guests time to get undressed, sign in, grab a drink and start talking. How does the party start, after 9pm? These are casual parties. There is no magic hour. 9pm is to stop people from arriving fashionably late... and for all arrive at once. All guests leaving their clothes at the door is an excllent start. For the newcomers, it is ok to just watch. There is no pressure on anyone. At our parties, everything is social and casual. Many swinger clubs insist there is no talking during sex !!! Boring ??? The regulars, however, do not waste much time. Bottom line is if you are a couch potatoe, then you sit on the couch. Do I need to wear a condom for intercourse? Yes. What happens if I get a hard-on? Put on a condom and put it to use. Ladies - can you reach out and cop a feel? Obviously, no means no. Body language tells the story and just say sorry if needed. Personally, as a male, I can assure you that no guy will object to a playfull grab of their buns or balls in passing. It is the one setting where it is acceptable and not sexual harassment. Without clothes, we are equals, and you know why we are here. As host I am always fair game for a grab as I pass by, as I'm contantly running around to check on things. This goes for the guys as well as the ladies. At other parties, I've had my cheeks kept cherry red, balls tweeked and my cock pulled until hard. I enjoy the hand contact. This is what social sex is about. These parties are fun, If hand contact is done in good taste and with laughter, then go for it. We are all naked and know why we are here. Men - can you reach out and cop a feel? Obviously, no means no. Body language tells the story and just say sorry if needed. Everything depends on the "context". If you are non-threatening, and playfull, then it is all in good fun as you are passing. Obviously, none of us "needs" their first feel. Why not hug a lady as you walk past and then talk to them, complement them. If they respond to a hug then be playfull. It is one of the few parties where you can muff-dive while a lady is in the middle of a social conversation. This is not one-on-one sex, you are not interrupting their laughter if you muff-dive at the same time. Bi-Men - can you reach out and give a blowjob? Obviously, no means no. Body language tells the story and just say sorry if needed. Some of the guys will be straight and will NOT want any contact, so please respect that. Yet, these are bi parties and a blowjob is a blowjob. Others are fair game and would love a gentle tug, or teaser blowjob, while they are in mid-sentance as you are walking past. One common complaint is a large number of guests were hoping to try blowjobs but nobody offered. Either be a couch potatoe, or use the marker to advertise and enjoy the party. Try the marker and have someone write on your back "I need the practice". Why let the ladies do all the work? Or, "If soft, service". Can I join in during group sex?? During sex, these are **NOT** one-on-one sex orgasms. You can be a couch potatoe or you can give a lady extra orgasms. During sex work a toe, nipple, earlobe, clit, whatever. Each of us has our own style. Multiple orgasms are from multiple sensations. Usually, we have up to six guys working on the ladies at once. From toes to clit to nipples to whatever it takes to give multiple orgasms. When you get winded, step back and let someone else step in. Each guy has their own style. Multiple orgasms from multiple sensations at once. This goes for the circle Male Blowjobs. Don't be afraid to cut in the middle, or grab someone's balls as you walk past. They are having group sex, so obviously they do not mind an extra hand or cock in there. Never be shy about a quick taste. Ladies - Can I watch the guys? Can I give them pointers? Yes, you will find guys are not that shy after all. If you catch someone masterbating, cheer him on and watch. Each guy has their own style. Or if you see a hardon, give it a quick high five. Also, some guys are shy and learning how to give their first blowjob. If they are doing things all wrong, jump in, grab it, stick it in their mouth, and tell them what to do. Always share... and always share your tips. These are bi parties and some of the men are just learning. I was taught by a wonderful lady who would always share and give pointers when I started. Sharing your blowjobs with a guy is comical. Less work for you and an amazing amount of fun. A contest to see who gets the first deposit. Few guys have experienced that sensation. Be patient, share and teach them the tricks. If you see a guy soft, ask him to masterbate. Every guy has their own style... just too ashamed to admit it. Why do all the work when you can watch him do it himself. Or shang-high someone else to do it for him and watch their style. The ideal way to learn new techniques and see how individual each guy's style is. Ladies - Can I bring my favourite toy? Yes, what is good for the goose is good for the gander. Make it fit in. We have plenty of lube. These parties are about new experiences and new limits. Be aggressive. Feel free to explore. We have plenty of toys in the playroom too. Can we socialize during sex? There are a number of Swinger clubs with strict rules that all guests must remain quiet during sex. Sex is spontaneous. Sex is fun. We socialize as a group. If you look at the pictures, everyone is laughing and talking when their mouth is not full. These are not one-on-one situations. There is no need to find a quiet corner where nobody is watching. Be adventurous... start having sex in the middle of the room... or the middle of a conversation. We all know why we are their and sex is fun. When do we have to leave? There are a number of guests with a long drive home and so some start to leave around 1am. However, others are completely exhausted from the orgasms and call it quits earlier. These are "parties". That means you do not have to have non-stop sex to enjoy the party. Enjoy the food, enjoy the experiences of every one's tasts, enjoy the talk, and swap e-mail addresses. The website has a list of hotel rooms, or just crash on a couch or in a guest room. What happens after? I have privacy rules and so I cannot share e-mail addresses. Please get them before you leave. If you want to contact a guest, please let me know and I will forward that request to them. This is where the name tags help. Most of us enjoy the safe sex, and with the regulars we can be comfortable getting together on our own. For example, I have some regulars who drop by for new pics and great sex between parties. If a camera comes out I always get naked. Others, get together tanning at the nude beaches or arrange road trips. These parties are about socializing. Safe sex is easy if you ask. This is not a dating service. Guests leave alone. It is not "cool" to try and pick someone up. This is a lifestyle, and not a dating service. If I attend, do I have access to the party pics? All guests will get the updated password for the galleries as part of their donation. Guest passwords (username "regulars") are changed monthly before new pics are released. For those purchasing monthly access to party pics, Verotel expires them in 30 days. If you see any pics that were not edited enough, just let us know.

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